Having lived like a nomad for the last few decades, the feeling of belonging is often lost and the borders seem to have blurred significantly in terms of our behavior, our values and our thinking overall. There are times when distinctions such as culture, gender, color, nationalities seem pointless and like I have stated in one of my previous blogs, the human need to identify oneself through differences seem frivolous. The more I meet people from different backgrounds the more I find them similar in the core. Sure, cultures, nationalities, accents and looks differ and these aspects do have an effect on relationships. However, it appears that a new bubble of community is formed under this category of people, which we can categorize as the nomadic or the hippies of the new world. In other words, they are the "Expatriates”.
During many farewell dinners with many friends from this bubble of expatriates we have discussed the perils of re-integration that are required for those returning back home. Sometimes happy but more often nervous to be able to adapt to the very same world where they were born and brought up. In a foreign land these same people tried so hard to maintain their identities from home and once back home they find it difficult to adjust to what they once called home.
Ironic as it appears, the transformations of human ideologies with reference to place and environment is natural. Our instinct to adapt to our habitat has been ingrained through evolution. Stepping away from our home countries and cultures brings new perspectives to our outlook, open us to new ideas and points of views. Living as an expatriate broadens our horizons of the range of possibilities of living your life. This makes it difficult for us to go back to our own home countries and fit in. Many of us do go back and like to be close to our own but once an expatriate always the odd one out. I have heard many Swedish friends tell me how out of place they feel coming back to Sweden after their long haul abroad, many Americans are nervous to be back home and many Indians who are back in India but are always looking for cross cultural communities. The sense of a reverse culture shock is a growing phenomenon.
Should we call this a loss of identity or gaining a more heterogeneous identity? Have we stepped out of the comfort of our widely perceived nationalities or have we stepped into the comfort of the new global citizen ? Our children are growing up in mixed communities that speak many languages, have different hair, eye and skin coloring and perhaps have contrary cultural beliefs. Do these differences make them more tolerant toward each other or will it generate more prejudice ? Will such a multiple exposure to communities and countries make them see the world as a single entity or will they begin to segregate it. Will this international cult of children turn into Aliens, Intellectuals, Visionaries or Freaks ? Is this world ready to embrace differences or generate further divides ?
It remains to be seen which direction our future generations will take as currently the world ideology looks a bit confusing to me. The post war liberalism has forgotten its lessons already and reverted to conservationism. India’s much proclaimed post war secularism has turned into a traditionalist by banning ‘beef' for its citizens. The making of the European Union embraced globalization and yet the referendum in Britain resulted into the Brexit. Just a few years ago USA welcomed a colored President and now it speaks of creating hostile walls bordering Mexico. If this world is going to take one step forward and two backwards it will be a long time before our children can feel at ease with their new forms of identity.
The world appears to be standing at the crossroads of deciding its own identity, a humanity that breeds through love and a cohesive progress or a humanity that is segregated through the disparity of hate and conflict.